Girls In Their Summer Dresses This story is one that I can certainly understand and have quite intense feelings about. I must hold my tongue, though, as I do not wish to offend, but to rather offer some insight to Michaels side.
Most importantly, Frances should have never asked her husband about looking at girls. That is a loaded question and one that will ALWAYS lead to an upset female, possibly with tears. A similar question that warrants the same ending goes like this, “If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?” Now, how can a guy answer that without sounding like a total jerk? It is an impossible feat.The guy wants to be nice and says “nothing.
” Good answer? Wrong! The honest answer will make the girl feel inadequate, ugly, fat, etc. It is a no-win situation for the male victim. That is what happened to poor Michael. He could not deny that he looks at other women, and for this he greatly upsets his wife. I have absolutely no sympathy for Frances.She asked for the truth and she could not handle it. The advice I offer is to deal with it. Michael loves his wife dearly, but he is still a guy.
He sees women everywhere and has normal thoughts about them. However, that does not mean he doesnt love his wife or that he thinks she is not good enough for him any more, but that is the woman thought. That is the way it is and it will never change.There are just biological differences between men and women, and this is a big one.